Just for today, I will not feed into the blame game. That was a topic at my group today and I realize I can still play that role. Like the slogan says, "Let it begin with me." It isn't about the other person and what they are doing, it is about me and how I work and live my recovery. If you take me out of blame and shame, you are left with the bla...which is nothing, or sham, which means it isn't reality. Like this little guy, I can sling all the mud I want, but it generally comes back on me.